1. Telling your parents that you are just not going to agree with them about certain things (especially regarding your lifestyle choices), and that you are ready to deal with the consequences that might bring in your relationship. 2. Removing friends from your life that you grew up with who are simply no longer good for you, even if you have known them so long as to consider them just a part of your life — something you assume will always be there. 3. Telling these friends, should they ask, exactly why you don’t really hang out with each other anymore. Explaining to them what your issues actually are without trying to come off as though you have left them behind in some way (even if you feel like you have). 4. Deleting phone numbers of people you are very interested in dating but who are just never going to be interested in you in the same way. 5. Explaining to someone who is looking to date you seriously that you are just not in a phase of your life where you can offer that to t...